The stories of Reuben going up to his father’s bed (Genesis 35:22) and Judah unknowingly conceiving with Tamar (imagination) (Genesis 38) are more than moral failures—they are profound symbolic moments in the Bible. When interpreted through the framework of spiritual awakening, both episodes represent misalignments or breakthroughs in the process revealed in Genesis 2:24: “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” This command is not about social marriage—it is psychological. It is the first whisper of the transition from the old man (outer, inherited self) to the new man (inner, awakened self). It is the path of union that leads to transformation. Reuben: The Firstborn Who Clung to the Past Reuben, Jacob’s firstborn, is the obvious heir in outward terms. But the firstborn in scripture often symbolises the old state—the natural man bound by inherited patterns. When Reuben “went up to his father's bed,” he ...