The story of Reuben going up to his father’s bed (Genesis 35:22) has long been seen as scandalous — a shocking family drama that cost Reuben his birthright. But when you look deeper, this event reveals a profound lesson about the earliest mistake we all make when trying to manifest change in our lives. Reuben’s Act as a Symbol of Falling Back Reuben, the firstborn son of Jacob, was meant to hold the highest position of responsibility and blessing in the family. Yet, instead of stepping into this role fully, he “went up to his father’s concubine.” Symbolically, this represents Reuben falling back into old behaviours and patterns instead of embracing a new identity or state of consciousness. He didn’t truly “leave the father’s house” in imagination — he reverted to an old way of being, violating the spiritual law of separation described in Genesis 2:24, which calls for leaving the old to cleave to the new. Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, ...